Relationship & Intimacy Coaching in Las Palmas & Online | in English, Spanish, German
For when you don’t know how to talk with each other anymore, or the bedroom has been quiet for ages, and you’re ready to do something about it.
Complementary 45 min chat - Confidential - No strings
Here are a few situations where I can help, but this is not an exhaustive list. I have also worked with clients who experienced infidelity, “toxic” partners, or who wanted to open their relationships (and more).
Life transitions
“Since the baby, we’re a great team but a lost couple.”
Big life transitions (including moves or career changes) mean it’s time to re-negotiate what you’re prioritizing as a couple.
Desire differences
“My (partner’s) libido has disappeared, what do I do?”
Desire differences are very common. Learn how to shift temporary feelings of pressure or rejection into designing a love life that works for both of you.
Conflict
“We just fight all the time. Is it time to leave?”
When making big decisions (alone or together), it helps to go through a process to avoid remorse or resentment later.
Start small. Keep going if it’s working.
Couples “Kickstart”
Over four sessions of 90 minutes each (either spaced out or all in a one day in-person intensive in Las Palmas), we map out your goals, your dynamics, and start practicing new ways of relating. In session four, we review progress and decide how to proceed: continue, adjust, or close.
Investment: € 360
What if your partner isn’t ready to join you? You can start by yourself.
Over three sessions of 60 minutes each, we define what you want, explore what’s within your control, and prepare the conversations you’ve been avoiding. Then we review together: continue, adjust, or close.
Investment: €180
What’s the next step? Reach out.
Pick a time on my calendar to schedule a free consult. It’s a private 45-minute online chat, without obligation, to see what’s going on with you and explain how I work. If it feels right, we choose a starting process. If it doesn’t, I’ll point you towards someone who’s a better match.
What you tell me stays with me.
Everything you share is confidential, and I work to these ethical guidelines.
Meet Your Coach
I’ve been working as a certified coach since 2008, and after 10 years in corporate settings decided to focus on romantic relationships. Why? Because I’d rather talk about love and desire than productivity and efficiency.
Since 2021, I’ve obtained a MSc in Applied Psychology and several certifications in intimacy coaching (full list here). I’ve also learned a bunch in my own 19-year marriage.
A picture and words can only convey so much, and if you decide to work with a relationship coach, you need to feel comfortable with them. Let’s find out if we’re a good fit during a quick free chat.
“I had so many a-ha moments. Our session was eye-opening, and I came out of it understanding more about our different ways in dealing with conflicts and receiving feedback.”
Gigi
I highly recommend working with Doris, as you may discover something about your partner that you would have never thought about before!”
Heejung
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Frequently Asked Questions
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No. This is coaching grounded in psychological and developmental frameworks, focused on goals and growth rather than diagnosis or treatment.
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Not at all. This work is equally effective before things break down.
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That’s actually common, and workable. Motivation itself is part of the developmental process, and we can work with different levels of engagement.
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Yes. My practice welcomes folks from diverse relationship structures and across orientations. If you’d like, you can read my research paper on the stigma of non-monogamy here: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-023-10099-7