Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
In Las Palmas and Online ᐧ
English ᐧ Spanish ᐧ German
For when you don’t know how to talk with each other anymore, or the bedroom has been quiet for a while, and you’re ready to do something about it.
Complimentary 45 min chat ᐧ Confidential
Where I can help
Life transitions
“Since the baby, we’re a great team but a lost couple.”
Big life transitions (including moves or career changes) mean it’s time to re-negotiate what you’re prioritizing as a couple.
Desire differences
“My (partner’s) libido has disappeared, what do I do?”
Desire differences are very common. Learn how to shift temporary feelings of pressure or rejection into designing a love life that works for both of you.
Conflict
“We just fight all the time. Is it time to leave?”
When making big decisions (alone or together), it helps to go through a process to avoid remorse or resentment later.
Not sure if your situation fits? I have also worked with clients who experienced infidelity, “toxic” partners, or who wanted to open their relationships (and more). Let’s talk.
Intimacy Coach Certifications
Psychological Type Coach Certifications
What people have said…
Start small.
“Couples Kickstart”
Four sessions of 90 minutes each (either spaced out or all in a one day in-person intensive)
Sessions 1-3: Map out your goals, your dynamics, and start practicing new ways of relating.
Session 4: Review progress and decide whether to continue, adjust, or close.
Fees: €360
First step: Free Consult
“Solo Kickstart”
Three sessions of 60 minutes each
Sessions 1-2: Define what you want, explore what’s within your control, and prepare the conversations you’ve been avoiding.
Session 3: Review progress and decide whether to continue, adjust, or close.
Fees: €180
First step: Free Consult
“I had so many a-ha moments. Our session was eye-opening, and I came out of it understanding more about our different ways in dealing with conflicts and receiving feedback.” (Gigi)
“I highly recommend working with Doris, as you may discover something about your partner that you would have never thought about before!” (Heejung)
Start today.
Everything you share is confidential, and I work to these ethical guidelines.
Meet Your Coach
I’ve been working as a certified coach since 2008, and after 10 years in corporate settings decided to focus on romantic relationships. Why? Because I’d rather talk about love and desire than productivity and efficiency.
Since 2021, I’ve obtained a MSc in Applied Psychology and several certifications in intimacy coaching (full list here). I’ve also been married since 2007, and we almost didn’t make it.
A picture and words can only convey so much, and if you decide to work with a relationship coach, you need to feel comfortable with them. Let’s find out if we’re a good fit during a quick free chat.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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It’s a no-strings chat where you tell me what’s going on, and I tell you a bit about how I work. We can then decide if we’re a good fit.
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I offer both. Online is often most convenient, but I also meet clients at office spaces in Las Palmas.
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No. This is coaching grounded in psychological and developmental frameworks, focused on goals and growth rather than diagnosis or treatment.
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Not at all. This work is equally effective before things break down.
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That’s actually common, and workable. Motivation itself is part of the developmental process, and we can work with different levels of engagement.
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Yes. My practice welcomes folks from diverse relationship structures and across orientations. If you’d like, you can read my research paper on the stigma of non-monogamy here: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-023-10099-7
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Feel free to contact me!